Rejection and How To Deal with It!
With the statistics pointing out to more than 75% of relationships ending up with failure we will all have to experience refutation a few times during the course of our life and one of the most difficult experiences to deal with is indeed “rejection.”
Note it is important for the reader to realize one can relate to someone else, because of his/her education, experiences, intelligence and most of all, the natal *UCI “Unique Celestial Identity.”
Rejection may come from many sources and some of those causes may be ridiculous for some but extremely serious for others. Incidentally the most common reason for rejection is a feeling of inadequacy and a fear of failure from your partner. Regardless of the reason your significant other is dropping you is still devastating to the ego. The list is endless but let me mention a few reasons to why you could be rejected.
A lack of communication
A lack of chemistry
A lack of mental support
A lack of sexual activity
A lack of understanding
A lack of good health
A lack of spirituality
A lack of education
A lack of wealth
A lack of good looks
A lack of interest
Using drugs or alcohol
Being insecure, overweight, egocentric, sarcastic, unsociable, weird in public, but most of all, an incompatible *UCI.
And because opposite attracts, you will not be able to avoid the karmic relationship and the emotional, physical pain and abuses ahead of you! Those who care will try their best to protect you and those friends and family members may not agree with your love choice. Here are more reasons for them to do so.
Note that your loved ones or close friends really believe what they preach and what they perceive as being good or bad for you. Most of the time they are only seeing their own world and subconsciously regurgitating their own inner fears on you. All the people who are judging you are not cosmic conscious and can only let their own experiences, fears and their natal stars speak for them.
The rational infantile scientific community will never accept Astropsychology as a solid, reliable scientific discipline and medications can only add more phobias, disrupt the good working of the mind and produce a myriad of mental problems.
Attention Deficit Disorder (A.D.D.)
Often a hidden jealousy feeling can also support the fear of never finding love and if “I can’t or may not find love then why should you before me?” In some case fear and insecurity steers the behavior of a sibling for not supporting your relationship and risk a form of humiliation. For instance I am older than you are thus I should marry before you attitude.
Or insecurity such as; I can’t let you spend too much time with your lover he can’t have you that much, you need to spend more time with me. The phobic reason for motivating someone to go a specific way is usually well hidden in his or her own subconscious.
Your “benefactor” is totally unaware of the behind the scene cosmic stimulus but will be legitimacy concerned for your welfare. In most of the cases under the constant pressure and the need to please others, the new “Psyche” predominate and lead to the decision-making.
But remember, in the eternal battle between emotions (fear/insecurity/guilt) and logic (critical thinking,) emotions will always prevail and this is why even when seriously abused, people will still endure a destructive relationship!
But be sure because you have been dropped doesn’t mean your partner is having a good time doing so. The question is that; he/she now has to also deal with guilt and a multitude of destructive emotions and he/she may be concealing those feelings from you. Especially if you did not do anything wrong to them and behaved intelligently and lovingly all along the duration of your relationship.
Often one partner will chose to lie to avoid hurting the person’s feelings directly. A forced separation or meeting/dealing with a nice new person brings a myriad of new and positive feelings and put the weak relationship in jeopardy. I know for sure any woman is set naturally to love and respect her lover almost immediately and will love her man for ever! However under repetitive abusive circumstances would a woman finally find the strength to break up the destructive relationship.
Think of love as a beautiful painting, and each time you fight, you drive a nail through it and at the end the wonderful piece of art ( and your heart) disappear into a big hole of pain and tears…
Be sure that many questions arise to the mind of your lover before making the decision to let you go. Very often sleepless night, confusion tears and a good dose of guilt is unavoidable. It feels like being caught in an impossible situation wondering who will hurt most and if you can deal with life without your partner.
What’s your priority you may ask yourself? Well shall I make all those people that care so much for me happy, listen to their advises or will I have the strength to remove myself from this situation myself? If I do so they will be happy and wont harass me no more and if I don’t will they still love and respect me?
And what about my partner now? How do I tell him/her that it’s over? Has he/she done anything wrong to me? And your mind will start going back into the painful past, the lies, the abuses, the discord, the fights and in some case encounters with the police.
It’s simply a nightmare for both party and regardless of the reasons for the breakup both of you will hurt severely. In my crazy life I have been on both sides of the scale and each time the profound wounds took months, even years to heal. Because humans are machine of habits, the longer you stay in a strenuous relationship the harder the break.
I firmly believe women should be treated with love and respect no matter what and I absolutely disprove of any form of chauvinistic brutal attitude regardless of the reasons. I know from experience that there is only a fine red line with any women and once a man crosses this line there is absolutely no return for the abuser. But deep emotions, drugs and alcohol can turn a wonderful caring man into a beast! Especially if one of the partner(or both) own a fiery, aggressive natal UCI!
In the name of love or security a woman can take a tremendous amount of abuses yet stay years in a harmful relationships. Only when she has exhausted all her options to save her marriage will she finally free herself from the damaging relationship. This is a valuable argument and “dropping” her partner is a must.
However the situation changes if you are the good guy and feel victimized or thinks of it as a deplorable injustice done to you. Well once you collect yourself from the fact that your partner is cheating or want to leave you, a myriad of disrupting emotions and wild thoughts will have to be dealt with.
If you are a bad person simply “cry about it” and learn your lesson to treat your lover properly because you simply deserve what happened to you. Grow up, behave decently, stop drinking or doing drugs, realize your mistakes, be responsible, more caring, work harder and understand that women are not toys but living feeling respectable souls.
Some bullies wont take no for an answer and will make some unlucky women’s lives miserable with endless threats or long messages begging for forgiveness. In some extreme case the police and a protection order will be the only option to stop the nightmare. But it does not always work because remember, emotions always win…
If you think you are a “victim” of rejection then lets start the healing process.
You will be in denial for a while and refuse to accept all the facts.
You will wonder why you have been dropped and your ego will be badly smashed.
You will have many mixed emotions and in some case become very resentful.
You will “review” the movie many times wondering what went wrong.
You will hate all the people you may think are responsible for the break up.
You will probably cry heavily and feel very sad and at time totally empty.
In some case you will need spiritual help as to regenerate your wounded spirit but in no case addict yourself to antidepressants or seek relief consuming gallons of alcohol.
What to do and NOT to do:
Realize that your future is the reincarnation of your thoughts, thus the faster you changes your thought process the easier for the healing process to take place. Like a bad cigarette smoking habit that could kills you, remove the mental poison from your body, mind and spirit as soon as possible.
If he or she makes a request for you not to call simply do not. Respect their demand and become a better, stronger person. He or she will soon realize your emotional depth and how hurt and how much you mean business in letting go of the rel;relationship.
Keep in mind that it is easier to win the lottery than to find genuine love. In the constant search for love the people that have hurt you will always remember they were once truly loved by you. And this will be in itself a for ever sad reminder of the good things they have had with you and thrown it all away.
Avoid places where you went together for a while. Your subconscious will trig you into painful memory by association, thus if your partner drove a specific car you will immediately associate the car with the person and your heartbreaking experience will surface.
So don’t put yourself in a situation where you could do damage to your psyche if you can avoid it. Avoid listening to sad soft music especially “your song.” Change rhythm, remember, he or she asked you to move on, do so with confidence that the future has so much to offer because there is no future in your past!
Like you they are human and experience a real bad time trying to let go a portion of their life; don’t think you are the only one with feelings, remorse, pain and guilt.
Avoid drinking at all cost and avoid complaining to others, unless you want to lose your friends. And losing a friend mean also losing a wish because friends brings wishes…Find a way to “relieve” yourself from the past and regenerate building a new future. Get busy, go out, meet new friends they will bring new people into your life and in time, your dearest wishes will come to pass.
Realize and accept that; you are dying and re-birthing into a new stronger, better, wiser person thus remove all that could remind you of that person as soon as possible. He/she must become a stranger to your life again, someone you never knew before; Undo the damage inflicted upon your body, mind and spirit, no one will help you but only yourself.
You are in charge of your destiny, the captain of your ship, demand the Universe to bring you someone who will appreciate your priceless love and your wonderful gifts. I know it’s hard to do at the early stages of a break up but your happiness depend on your immediate thoughts and actions.
Put all the pictures, presents, letters, memories etc. in a box and then put them away. In the future, looking at those items will not hurt you anymore and you will be healed emotionally. It takes time and the faster you replace that person the faster you will be free to enjoy life again.
Never ever ask for the presents you gave him/her and do not take anything away to punish the perpetrator. . Doing so gives away your inner fears of being manipulated or an obvious insecurity complex.
Trust me in time this person will become the stranger she/he was the night before you guys met. Now if any of the person involved in a break up/divorce keeps it all, let it go, you will get much better in the future. There are still some deep feelings (or greed) in that person that must be dealt with and karma and time will take care of this person.
Do not nurture feelings of insecurity; resentments and revenge instead, rebuild your self-esteem. Exercise harder, become more magnetic, educate and discover yourself, be more competitive, take a chance, go out more, travel, socialize, meet new friends and do all it takes to upgrade to a new, a better you.
At 69 I experienced divorces and plenty of break ups, all those painful experiences made me stronger, wiser and I became a much better person each time. I always knew, I could only find a better partner because I know who I am and what I have to offer and that is the BEST of the BEST to that lucky, deserving girl.
Once hurt and lied to, like many people I became very cold, detached, uncaring, revengeful and my words were like deadly bullets… It always took the utmost best of me to forgive and forget those wrong partners because I also knew, it takes two to tango. This mean if one of the partner distant himself from the other, there are very valuable reasons to keep in consideration.
Think about it, a lack of love, attention, sex, interest, communication or boredom is always part of this painful equation… Most of all the cosmic cycle is also to blame, especially when negative cosmic winds curse the entire world at a universal level and your personal house of love and marriage…
Finding Love Through the Divine Cosmos
This person came into your life for a specific karmic purpose and, like you learn something valuable. If you have to recall anything, try to focus on the good, be thankful for all the great time you had and recall the good memories.
This individual made you feel loved, alive, wanted and so special in so many ways and guess what? You are still a wonderful human creative being. How can you attract a new lover if you hate yourself? How can you ask for happiness if you are not happy, secure and safe within?
A magnet will not attract a piece of wood, you must upgrade your psychical vibrations, more than ever, love yourself, forgive yourself and bring vitality and magnetism into your being to a much higher level. The right person for you is looking for you and around the corner.
Remember life is a process of constant and endless changes and what happened to you is nothing else than a wish in disguise. He or she could not bring you what you really needed and truly wanted, so the Universal order made that decision for you, so take it, deal with it and be strong.
You may want someone more attractive, more spiritual, older, younger, smarted, wealthier, sexy or simply dedicated to your loving heart but most of all someone that can recognize and appreciate the real you and your true love. This person saw that in you but could not appreciate it, so why wasting it? This world is loaded with great people like you, so make yourself available to them NOW.
What you have to offer is priceless and that is YOU, a unique human being destined to do miracles, to give receive and enjoy true love and respects all other human beings. You would never hurt anyone purposely, you are the victim of cosmic circumstance imposing changes and growth into your life! You MUST only and truly offer your body, mind and spirit for that special person only.
Guess what you may also be looking for your true soul mate and for sure she/he was not the one. But be happy because now you are free and you can aim for that special person and reward him/her with the deepest, strongest and purest form of love a human being is able to offer another.
Be at peace with yourself, be happy with yourself and trust your future mostly because God and the universe knows better than you do and will always take care of you. Lastly believe like I do and don’t doubt that you can only find much better and in my case, it has proven to be right each time.
Regardless of the reason involving a break up in the majority of cases both partners will often suffer both emotionally and financially. If you are in such a situation and you feel you can save it, a comparison chart will shed more light on the strengths and weaknesses of your relationship.
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Ultimately, as your future is nothing else than the reincarnation of the thought, your pain and sorrow is more of a blessing in disguise allowing you to free yourself and attract the loving, respectful person you deserve…
If you are looking for true love, here is a poem I wrote for you. Memorize it and let the magical wonder of the Universe bless you with your wish. It’s called “I will love you for eternity” regardless of what can happen between us.
In the ocean of existence, my wounded heart is reaching for your love and your healing magic. A tear of shade blinds my aspiration and my dreams but just for the blink of an eye. I know soon your loving heart and wise soul to be before me… There is only but you, one bright star in the vastness of the universe and I am calling you.
AND HERE SHE CAME TO ME! My soul mate and sweet heart Terania ****My Shinning Star****
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